How many of you have something that keeps showing up in your relationships over and again? Everything seems great and then all of a sudden, it feels like you're dating your dad or mom or brother or sister. Your spouse suddenly seems to be just like your parent or your aunt and you start feeling like you're 8 again.
Um… not very fun if you were the stubborn and angry 8 year old I was!
If you're finding that the person you enjoyed so much in the beginning or who you adore from time to time throughout your long-term relationship starts being the same energy as someone in your family who you really love or hate or adore and you find that you're hooked to them and pushing them away all at once, it might be time to check in on a tele-class I'm offering this Thursday.
After you register for the class (do not mistake that for shameless plugging, it's simply an invitation:-), relax and know that this happens to most, if not every one of us. The first thing you can do to start unlocking you from this weird and often annoying habit is to stop making yourself wrong for it. While there could very well be something wrong with you, this probably isn't it. It's more likely the way you chew gum or how you dance that's wrong with you. Come to think of it, it might be your overuse of perfume doing it.
Just kidding. Hear that again: there's probably nothing wrong with you and it's OK to stop making yourself wrong. You might simply be aware of energy and how cool is that?
OK. Maybe not that cool. You might be feeling more like Cypher in The Matrix, hoping to take the blue pill and enjoy your steak and blissful ignorance again. But you're not Cypher. You're you and there's something about awareness you ought to know… once you get it, you've got it and there's no turning back. Yes, sometimes it feels more like an STD than an ice-cream sandwich, but hey, there's always agoraphobia instead. Wait, awareness doesn't even stop at your front door. Never mind.
But don't lock the doors just yet. There is hope. Now that you're aware of this seemingly funked up propensity towards the very people who make you feel small and impotent from time to time, you can actually start to do something about it and I'd like to help.
Why you ask? Well, let's just say I have this friend (cough, cough) who has a similar thing going on and I care so much for her that I want to help her change it.
Here's the thing about working together: we actually CAN make a HUGE impact on the world.
I'm willing to get down to it and see what this thing truly is and where I've stuck myself with it so I can start creating something a little more fun with my relationships.
I wonder what it would be like to have a relationship with someone and not have to transform into an 8 year old walking around in a woman suit?
Please watch this invitational video and then CLICK HERE TO JOIN US THURSDAY AND HELP CREATE THE CHOICE WITH RELATIONSHIPS WE ALWAYS KNEW WAS POSSIBLE!
Lit and Comp teacher gone rogue, disguised now as a Living and Relationship Coach, Body Worker, and Access Consciousness Facilitator, I still sneak off to write because, well, it makes me come alive and it's one of the joyful ways I create the future.