Are you starting to notice that things can transform rather quickly? Like, everything can change in a matter of seconds or minutes? All of the sudden friendships and relationships don't feel the same, business looks totally different, and the stuff you were doing yesterday doesn't seem to work today?
A few of my most valuable relationships have shifted DYNAMICALLY over the course of the last couple weeks and I'm finding that either I'm simply not connected to people whose worlds I was totally inhabiting before or that the connections are flat out incongruent and that talking with these friends is nearly painful now.
After a few days of thinking there must be something terribly wrong with me because I couldn't line up with people the same way (and some of them are almost literally running away), I was lucky enough to chat with someone going through a similar thing and was reminded that I'm simply different. I've morphed and when I morph, people often fall away. No wrongness in that. No rightness either - on anyone's part. Just difference.
Duh! Even though this has happened more times than I can count in just this one lifetime I still forget! Silly girl!
So, the question is, without being wound up the same way in these friends' realities, now what?
HERE ARE A COUPLE POSSIBILITIES you might not have considered for when you're changing and the change is so phenomenal that you see it showing up instantaneously…
So, when everyone goes away and nothing seems to be working in your life, what if instead of assuming there's anything wrong, you allowed yourself to be curiouser than ever? Maybe you're transforming to such a degree as has never yet been possible.
Because, um… yeah… you're that f~cking cool!
Lit and Comp teacher gone rogue, disguised now as a Living and Relationship Coach, Body Worker, and Access Consciousness Facilitator, I still sneak off to write because, well, it makes me come alive and it's one of the joyful ways I create the future.